
“Mr. Quinlan!!!! How come we don’t have a boys basketball team? We had one last year, how come not this year?” The answer in my head is different than the one I actually tell the swarm of 7th and 8th grade boys who are playing a game of 3 on 3 at lunch. My answer is a simple one. ”You guys need a coach.” What I am actually thinking is that you need to look around and see how many more opportunities our young men have to perform in athletics and I quickly see that at this age the explanation would be lost on them.
There are many reasons why I continue to coach the Lady Mustangs, something that I have looked forward to doing every season for the past 9 years. I love to see them improve. I love to see them develop a love for basketball. I love to hear about when they make the freshman, junior varsity or varsity basketball teams at their high schools. But these are not the only reasons. Some of the other reasons I truly enjoy working with these young ladies will not even be realized until 8, 9, or 10 years down the road.
Reason #1
High school girls who play sports are more likely to get better grades in school and more likely to graduate than girls who do not play sports.
Reason #2
Girls who play sports have higher levels of confidence and self esteem and lower levels of depression.
Reason #3
Sport are where boys have traditionally learned about teamwork, goal-setting, the pursuit of excellence in performance and other achievement-oriented behaviors — critical skills necessary for success in the workplace. In an economic environment where the quality of our children’s lives will be dependent on two-income families, our girls cannot be less prepared for the highly competitive workplace than our sons. It is no accident that 80% of the female executives at Fortune 500 companies identified themselves as former “tomboys” - having played sports.
Reason #4
Girls need encouragement and inspirational role models.
This reason became evident this week when during the heartache of the 7th and 8th girls being left out of the basketball playoffs one of the 7th grade girls said she felt really bad for one of the 8th grade girls. She went on to say that this young lady has been a role model for her ever since she first stepped foot on our campus and that she realizes this 8th grader puts her heart and soul into basketball and school.
Final Thoughts
Many people think that girls are not as interested in sport as boys. Research shows that boys and girls between the ages of 6 and 9 are equally interested in sports participation. However, by the age of 14, girls drop out of sports at a rate that is six times greater than boys. Girls do not receive the same positive reinforcement about their sports participation. Boys receive balls, gloves and sports equipment by the age of two. They see their images on television as sportsmen, they see their photos in the sports section and know from their parents and friends that they are expected to play sports.
Even though our girls are not as likely to be discouraged from playing sports as they were 10 years ago, they simply aren’t encouraged to the same extent as boys. As a result, they enter organized sports two years later than little boys and are therefore less likely to have the skills necessary for early success experiences.
We must do a better job of supporting our girls’ sports participation. We must find books about girls in sports, give gifts of sports equipment and sports lessons. We need to take our girls to see women playing sports so they grow up appreciating and respecting the sports skills of women and so our daughters see images of themselves excelling in sports. It’s no accident that girls’ sports participation in sports increases significantly following the Olympic Games, one of the few times that coverage of women’s sports is equal to that of men’s sports. Role models drive youth demand for sports.
